What Does It Mean When He Super Likes You and Then Ghosts?
The Situation
"He super liked me then never responded to my message"
The Brutal Truth
He might have been seeking validation or attention rather than genuine interest. His lack of response shows he’s not ready to commit or communicate in a healthy way. You deserve someone who matches your enthusiasm and is willing to engage!
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might spiral into self-blame, thinking, 'What did I do wrong?' This is wrong because it shifts focus away from his behavior and undermines your self-worth. His inconsistency is a reflection of him, not you!
💭 Something to Reflect On
How often do I find myself chasing after people who show mixed signals, and what does this reveal about my own needs and self-worth?
✨ What To Do Next
Every situation has nuance. What you see here is a general pattern, but your specific circumstances matter.
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