Why He Wants to Meet But Avoids Making Plans: Signals to Watch
The Situation
"He said he wants to meet but won't pick a day or time"
The Brutal Truth
He’s stringing you along with empty promises. He might enjoy the attention but isn’t serious about actually meeting you. His lack of commitment shows he’s either uncertain or not that interested in investing in you.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might obsessively text him, trying to pin him down for a date. This not only lowers their self-worth but also reinforces his evasive behavior, setting a cycle of anxiety and unreciprocated effort.
💭 Something to Reflect On
What boundary do I need to set to ensure I only invest in those who show genuine interest and commitment?
✨ What To Do Next
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