Why Is He Watching Your Stories But Not Talking to You?
The Situation
"He watches my stories but hasn't talked to me in months"
The Brutal Truth
He’s interested enough to keep tabs on you but not committed enough to engage. This is a classic case of breadcrumbing—attention without meaningful interaction. It reflects emotional unavailability and a lack of respect for your time and feelings.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might interpret his story views as genuine interest and reach out repeatedly for validation, but this is harmful. It reinforces the cycle of seeking approval and ignores your worth. You shouldn’t have to chase someone who isn't reciprocating your energy.
💭 Something to Reflect On
If your intuition is telling you something feels off, what are you ignoring about your own needs and worth?
✨ What To Do Next
Every situation has nuance. What you see here is a general pattern, but your specific circumstances matter.
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