Why Her Insecurity About Your Promotion Is a Red Flag
The Situation
"She won't celebrate my promotion because it makes her insecure"
The Brutal Truth
Her refusal to celebrate your achievement shows toxic insecurity. Instead of supporting you, she's projecting her feelings onto you, which is unhealthy in a relationship. She's more focused on her own fears than on your happiness, indicating deep-rooted emotional issues.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might feel compelled to downplay their own success or constantly reassure her to avoid conflict. This is wrong because it sacrifices their self-worth and achievements for someone who's emotionally unavailable.
💭 Something to Reflect On
What part of you believes your success is a threat to someone else's worth?
✨ What To Do Next
Every situation has nuance. What you see here is a general pattern, but your specific circumstances matter.
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