Why Hiding Amazon Packages is a Red Flag in Dating
The Situation
"He hides Amazon packages like I'm his mom"
The Brutal Truth
He’s treating you like a parent, hiding purchases instead of embracing openness. This behavior shows a lack of trust and maturity in the relationship, suggesting he’s emotionally avoidant and not ready for genuine intimacy.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might start snooping through his belongings or questioning him obsessively about the packages, thinking that proves their worth. This is wrong because it reinforces the cycle of mistrust and pushes him further away instead of fostering open communication.
💭 Something to Reflect On
If you noticed someone treating their partner this way, would you see it as loving or controlling? Why are you accepting less than you deserve?
✨ What To Do Next
Every situation has nuance. What you see here is a general pattern, but your specific circumstances matter.
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