Why Hiding Purchases Can Signal Serious Relationship Issues
The Situation
"She hides luxury purchases even though we're saving for a house"
The Brutal Truth
She's willing to prioritize luxury over your shared commitment to saving, indicating selfishness and a lack of transparency. This behavior is a major red flag for trust and shared values in your partnership.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might downplay their concerns, trying to justify her behavior by thinking 'Maybe I’m overreacting' or feeling guilty for questioning her motives. This is dangerous—trust your gut!
đź’ Something to Reflect On
What boundaries am I not enforcing around shared goals and financial priorities in my relationships?
✨ What To Do Next
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