Understanding Emotional Manipulation in Holiday Gift Pressure
The Situation
"She uses holidays to pressure me into gifts then disappears"
The Brutal Truth
She’s using holidays as a manipulation tactic to extract gifts from you but vanishes when there's no benefit. This shows a lack of genuine care; she sees you as a means to fulfill her desires, not a partner.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might feel compelled to give in to her pressure, fearing rejection or loss. This is wrong because it reinforces her manipulative behavior and undermines your self-worth.
💭 Something to Reflect On
What part of you feels that you must buy affection or prove your love to be worthy?
✨ What To Do Next
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