Why Ignoring Boundaries in Relationships is a Red Flag
The Situation
"She lets her kids sleep in our bed and ignores my discomfort"
The Brutal Truth
His discomfort doesn't matter; she prioritizes her kids over his feelings, showing a lack of respect and a disregard for healthy boundaries. This behavior hints at attachment issues and an unwillingness to address relationship dynamics.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might suppress their feelings to avoid conflict or try to please her by accepting what feels uncomfortable. This is wrong because it compromises their own worth and needs, paving the way for resentment.
đź’ Something to Reflect On
What does it say about your boundaries if you're uncomfortable but still feel you should accept his situation?
✨ What To Do Next
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