What to Do When He Invites His Kids on Date Night
The Situation
"He invites his kids to our date nights without warning"
The Brutal Truth
He's not ready to prioritize your relationship and is using his kids as an excuse. This behavior shows a lack of respect for your time and boundaries, which is a clear red flag in dating.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might feel pressured to go along with it, thinking it shows commitment, but this approach only leads to resentment and confusion. Your needs are just as important!
đź’ Something to Reflect On
What would it feel like to set a boundary around what you want from this relationship?
✨ What To Do Next
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