Why Jealousy Over Your Career Is a Major Red Flag
The Situation
"He's jealous of my career and puts me down"
The Brutal Truth
His jealousy of your success shows he feels insecure and threatened by your independence. Putting you down is an attempt to control and diminish your self-worth to elevate his own. This behavior is toxic and rooted in his fear, not your worth.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person may downplay their achievements and seek excessive reassurance to keep the peace, fearing abandonment. This is wrong because it sacrifices their self-worth and lets toxicity thrive instead of addressing the real issues. You deserve better; stay true to yourself.
đź’ Something to Reflect On
What in myself do I need to embrace in order to attract someone who celebrates my success?
✨ What To Do Next
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