Navigating Jealousy in Relationships: What It Means and What to Do
The Situation
"She's jealous of my female coworkers"
The Brutal Truth
This jealousy indicates insecurity and possession. Instead of trusting you, she views female coworkers as a threat. It's about her own fears, not your actions. Understand that her lack of trust signals deeper issues that need addressing.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might over-communicate to reassure her, altering their behavior or even avoiding female colleagues. This is wrong because it sacrifices their social environment and self-worth to appease another’s insecurities.
đź’ Something to Reflect On
How does it feel when you recognize someone else's jealousy toward you? What boundaries can you set to protect your well-being?
✨ What To Do Next
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