Why Jealousy Over Male Friends Indicates Deeper Issues
The Situation
"He's jealous of my male friends but has female friends"
The Brutal Truth
His jealousy shows insecurity and possessiveness. He expects you to cater to his comfort while not extending the same courtesy toward your relationships. This behavior suggests he doesn’t trust you or values control over mutual respect.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might downplay their discomfort to appease him, thinking they need to justify their friendships or change their behavior. This move ignores their own needs and boundaries, leading to resentment and self-doubt.
💭 Something to Reflect On
How might your relationships change if you prioritized partners who celebrate your friendships instead of feeling threatened by them?
✨ What To Do Next
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