Why Keeping It Casual After Two Years is a Red Flag
The Situation
"He wants to keep things casual after two years of dating"
The Brutal Truth
After two years, him wanting to keep things casual means he’s comfortable where he is and has no intention of deepening your bond. This shows a lack of respect for your time and desires, treating this as a fun fling rather than a serious relationship.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might try to convince him to change his mind by putting pressure on him or by making excuses for his behavior. This is wrong because it undermines their own self-worth and validates a partner's inconsistency instead of calling it out.
💭 Something to Reflect On
What have you learned about what you truly want in a relationship after two years?
✨ What To Do Next
Every situation has nuance. What you see here is a general pattern, but your specific circumstances matter.
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