Why Keeping You Away from Her Friends Is a Red Flag
The Situation
"She keeps me away from her friend group for no reason"
The Brutal Truth
She's hiding you from her friends, which means she likely doesn't see a future with you or is embarrassed by the relationship. It shows a lack of respect for you and may indicate she's up to something. You deserve better than this.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might try to ingratiate themselves with her friends or question her about it, seeking validation and reassurance. This is wrong because it compromises their self-worth and often leads to further insecurity in the relationship.
đź’ Something to Reflect On
What part of you believes you need to fight for a place in someone's life instead of naturally belonging?
✨ What To Do Next
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