What It Means When He Talks About Kids on the First Date
The Situation
"He said he wants to have kids with me on the first date"
The Brutal Truth
This guy is either love-bombing you or projecting his fantasies onto you without genuine consideration for your feelings. It’s way too soon and shows a lack of respect for the natural progression of a relationship.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might feel compelled to reciprocate those sentiments, thinking they can win his affection by matching his intensity. This is a major mistake; it disregards your own needs and boundaries.
💭 Something to Reflect On
What does it reveal about your self-worth when someone brings up life-changing topics too soon?
✨ What To Do Next
Every situation has nuance. What you see here is a general pattern, but your specific circumstances matter.
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