Listening Outside the Door: Is Your Partner Violating Boundaries?
The Situation
"She listens outside the door when I'm on therapy calls"
The Brutal Truth
She's invading your privacy and shows a lack of respect for your therapeutic space—this is controlling behavior masked as concern. It's a significant red flag about her boundaries and trust issues.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might brush this off or justify it, convincing themselves it’s a sign of care. This rationalization is toxic—real care respects boundaries.
💭 Something to Reflect On
What does this situation reveal about the boundaries you set and the respect you expect in a relationship?
✨ What To Do Next
Every situation has nuance. What you see here is a general pattern, but your specific circumstances matter.
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