Why Mixed Signals in Dating Are a Red Flag for Your Self-Worth
The Situation
"She keeps me guessing about how she feels"
The Brutal Truth
When she keeps you guessing, it means she's emotionally unavailable and playing games. This uncertainty is a way of exerting control and causing you to seek her validation instead of recognizing your worth. It's a toxic dynamic that leads to your frustration and anxiety.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might overanalyze every interaction, leading to constant questioning and a frantic need for reassurance. This is harmful because it feeds into her unpredictability and reinforces insecurity, rather than establishing healthy boundaries and self-trust.
đź’ Something to Reflect On
What would it feel like to only date someone who makes their intentions crystal clear?
✨ What To Do Next
Every situation has nuance. What you see here is a general pattern, but your specific circumstances matter.
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