Understanding Mixed Signals: Future Talk Without Commitment
The Situation
"He said he sees a future with me but won't talk about it"
The Brutal Truth
He claims to see a future with you, but his refusal to discuss it means he's either avoiding commitment or isn't serious. He's giving you just enough to keep you hanging on without real intentions.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might overanalyze his words, convincing themselves he's just insecure or needs more time. This is wrong because it ignores the clear sign he's not ready or willing to engage in a meaningful conversation about the future.
đź’ Something to Reflect On
What would it feel like to only date someone who is willing to openly discuss their intentions with you?
✨ What To Do Next
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