Why Likes Don’t Equal Interest: Understanding Mixed Signals
The Situation
"He likes my posts but won't respond to my messages"
The Brutal Truth
He's giving you just enough attention to keep you interested, but he isn't willing to invest in meaningful communication. His online likes suggest he enjoys your content, but he lacks the maturity or interest to engage genuinely.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might flood him with messages, seeking reassurance and validation, which only pushes him further away and reinforces that his behavior is acceptable.
💭 Something to Reflect On
What would it feel like to prioritize dating someone who actively invests in open communication and clarity?
✨ What To Do Next
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