Understanding Mixed Signals: Why He's Distant Over Text
The Situation
"He acts interested in person but distant over text"
The Brutal Truth
He likes you in person but isn't invested enough to maintain that energy through texts. This is a classic case of someone enjoying the attention without commitment, leaving you confused and questioning your worth.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might cling to him, sending multiple texts or trying to initiate conversations more frequently. This is wrong because it only reinforces the idea that his lack of engagement is acceptable and may push him further away.
đź’ Something to Reflect On
What part of you fears that seeking clarity might lead to rejection?
✨ What To Do Next
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