Analyzing Mixed Signals: Why Does He Watch and Then Ghost?
The Situation
"He watches my stories immediately but takes hours to text back"
The Brutal Truth
He's interested enough to check you out but too detached to invest time in you. He wants attention without the commitment. You’re a spectator in his game—you deserve better than to be a side note in his life.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might bombard him with texts seeking validation or explanation, which only reinforces his lack of commitment. It’s a desperate move that pushes you further from the respect and certainty you need.
💭 Something to Reflect On
What part of me is drawn to mixed signals, and how does it reflect on my self-worth?
✨ What To Do Next
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