Why She Claims Money Doesn’t Matter But Only Dates Wealthy Men
The Situation
"She said money doesn't matter but only dates wealthy men"
The Brutal Truth
She’s either lying to herself and others to justify her choices, or she’s genuinely conflicted about her values and needs. Either way, her actions betray her words, revealing a deep attachment to financial security over authenticity.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might chase after her, desperately trying to prove their worth through emotional support and affirmation. This is wrong because it undermines their self-worth and reinforces unhealthy dynamics.
💭 Something to Reflect On
What does my choice of partners reveal about my own values and self-worth?
✨ What To Do Next
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