Navigating Blame in Parenting: What to Do When Your Partner Ignores Advice
The Situation
"She ignores the pediatrician's advice and blames me when kids get sick"
The Brutal Truth
He refuses to take responsibility and instead shifts the blame to you, showing a lack of accountability and partnership. This isn't just irresponsible; it's a way to manipulate the situation to protect his ego at your expense.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might try to over-explain or defend themselves, hoping to appease him and regain his approval. This is unhealthy and only feeds into the toxic dynamic. You shouldn't have to justify or convince someone of your worth!
đź’ Something to Reflect On
What part of your past makes you feel responsible for others' choices and outcomes, and how can you shift that belief?
✨ What To Do Next
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