Nonrefundable Tickets: A Red Flag in Dating Scenarios
The Situation
"She buys nonrefundable tickets before checking with me"
The Brutal Truth
This behavior screams disrespect. Buying nonrefundable tickets without consulting you shows a lack of consideration for your time and preferences. It's selfish and indicates she prioritizes her agenda over mutual planning. You deserve someone who values your input.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might start justifying the behavior, thinking, "Maybe she had good intentions," or trying to over-communicate, hoping to mend the situation. This is wrong because it ignores their own feelings and needs, enabling disrespectful patterns.
đź’ Something to Reflect On
If your best friend told you this story, what would you tell her?
✨ What To Do Next
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