When Your Partner Believes Friends’ Rumors About You: What It Means
The Situation
"She believes rumors her friends start about me"
The Brutal Truth
She’s letting others dictate her perception of you instead of trusting her own instincts. This reflects insecurity and may indicate a lack of emotional maturity or commitment to the relationship.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might over-explain or try to change her friends' opinions, hoping to gain approval. This is misguided, as it undermines their own worth and can create further tension.
💭 Something to Reflect On
What would trusting your own judgment over others’ opinions mean for your confidence in relationships?
✨ What To Do Next
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