When Your Partner Posts Like They're Single: What It Means
The Situation
"He posts like he's single but says he's committed to me"
The Brutal Truth
His public behavior shows he values attention over commitment. He may enjoy being seen as available while keeping you on the back burner. This is classic mixed signals, revealing he’s not serious about you or the relationship.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
You might feel compelled to confront him about his posts, seeking reassurance and trying to modify his behavior. This approach often backfires, making you appear insecure, and it gives him the power to define the relationship instead of letting you establish your own boundaries.
💭 Something to Reflect On
What does his mixed signals say about your worth and what you really deserve in a relationship?
✨ What To Do Next
Every situation has nuance. What you see here is a general pattern, but your specific circumstances matter.
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