When Your Partner Expects You to Handle All Their Visa Paperwork Alone
The Situation
"She expects me to handle all her visa paperwork alone"
The Brutal Truth
She’s leaning on you for emotional and logistical support while avoiding responsibility. This signals potential emotional unavailability and a lack of partnership. Relationships are a two-way street, not a solo act!
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might begin overcompensating, offering to do even more for her to avoid conflict or rejection. This is misguided; it just reinforces the unhealthy dynamic and neglects their own needs.
💭 Something to Reflect On
What boundaries do I need to set to ensure a balanced partnership that respects both our needs?
✨ What To Do Next
Every situation has nuance. What you see here is a general pattern, but your specific circumstances matter.
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