Why Picking Fights Before Family Gatherings is a Red Flag
The Situation
"He picks fights before every family gathering"
The Brutal Truth
He thrives on drama and seeks to destabilize your emotional state before significant events. This behavior reflects insecurity and a need for control, showing he may not be ready for a healthy commitment.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might try to smooth over tension by appeasing him or postponing the gathering, thinking they can avoid conflict. This is unhealthy. It teaches you that your worth depends on others' peace.
💭 Something to Reflect On
What part of you believes it's normal to fight before a family event, and how does that impact your experience of love and connection?
✨ What To Do Next
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