When You Find Out Your Partner Shares Private Moments in Group Chats
The Situation
"She tells her group chat everything we do in bed"
The Brutal Truth
She’s disrespecting your privacy by sharing intimate experiences with her friends. This not only shows a lack of respect for you but also suggests she seeks validation from others instead of prioritizing your relationship. This is not healthy love.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might try to over-explain themselves or seek reassurance from her, fearing she's losing interest. This is wrong because it only reinforces her behavior and allows her to disregard your feelings.
💭 Something to Reflect On
What part of you believes your intimate moments are okay to share with others?
✨ What To Do Next
Every situation has nuance. What you see here is a general pattern, but your specific circumstances matter.
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