Red Flag Alert: When His Bank Account Tells a Different Story
The Situation
"He said he makes six figures but his bank account says otherwise"
The Brutal Truth
He’s lying about his financial status to impress you. This indicates insecurity, manipulation, or a lack of authenticity. It’s a red flag showing he may not be honest in other areas too, signaling a pattern of deceit that you should not ignore.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might try to validate his claims, searching for evidence to support his statement. This behavior is wrong because it diminishes your self-worth and encourages you to doubt your instincts instead of demanding transparency and certainty in your relationships.
💭 Something to Reflect On
What do I truly need in a partner to feel secure and valued?
✨ What To Do Next
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