Why It's a Red Flag When He Invites Himself to Girls' Nights
The Situation
"He invites himself to girls' nights without asking"
The Brutal Truth
He's not respecting your boundaries and is trying to insert himself into your space; this shows a lack of consideration for your autonomy and hints at possible possessiveness or insecurity.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might panic and feel the need to explain or justify their friendships to him. This is harmful because it undermines their self-worth and reinforces the belief that they need to seek approval from others.
đź’ Something to Reflect On
What does it reveal about your self-worth that someone feels entitled to your personal space without asking?
✨ What To Do Next
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