Why Refusal to Help with Appointments is a Red Flag
The Situation
"She refuses to help with appointments"
The Brutal Truth
She’s prioritizing her boundaries over your needs, showing emotional unavailability. This refusal can signal a lack of investment in the relationship or avoidance of commitment. It’s a clear indicator that she may not be the partner you deserve.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might beg her to help or offer to compromise their own needs, hoping to gain her approval. This reinforces dependency and sets a dangerous precedent for future interactions.
💭 Something to Reflect On
What does her refusal to assist reveal about your expectations in relationships? Are you seeking validation from someone who isn’t fully showing up for you?
✨ What To Do Next
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