When He Refuses Medication or Therapy: Red Flags
The Situation
"He won't take medication or go to therapy"
The Brutal Truth
His refusal for treatment signals deep-seated issues he’s unwilling to confront. This choice often stems from fear, denial, or emotional unavailability. It indicates a risk of emotional turmoil and instability in your relationship if he won't prioritize his mental health.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might chase after him, trying to convince him to seek help or change. This is a mistake because it prioritizes his needs over your own and ignores the red flags. Remember, you are not a therapist.
💭 Something to Reflect On
What boundaries do I need to establish for my emotional health when it comes to partners and mental health issues?
✨ What To Do Next
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