What It Means When She Refuses to Let You Review Documents Before Submission
The Situation
"She won't let me review documents before she submits them"
The Brutal Truth
She’s setting a boundary that you’re likely overstepping. This shows a lack of trust in your ability to support her, indicating potential issues in communication and respect for autonomy.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might try to convince her or assert themselves more, leading to miscommunication and resentment. This is wrong because it disregards her autonomy and reinforces unhealthy dynamics.
💭 Something to Reflect On
What part of you feels insecure about your place in this relationship and how can you redefine your worth?
✨ What To Do Next
Every situation has nuance. What you see here is a general pattern, but your specific circumstances matter.
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