When Your Ambition Makes Your Partner Feel Abandoned
The Situation
"She said she wants an ambitious man but complains I'm never home"
The Brutal Truth
She’s saying she wants you to be ambitious, but her complaints reveal her need for connection and presence. She craves both success and affection, but she feels neglected. It’s a recipe for frustration if expectations aren’t aligned.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might overcompensate by trying to prove their worth through excessive attention or appeasement. This is wrong because it undermines their needs and doesn't solve the core issue of misaligned expectations in the relationship.
💭 Something to Reflect On
How can I effectively communicate my needs without compromising my ambitions?
✨ What To Do Next
Every situation has nuance. What you see here is a general pattern, but your specific circumstances matter.
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