Why Refusing to Acknowledge Conflict is a Red Flag in Dating
The Situation
"She refuses to acknowledge her part in any conflict"
The Brutal Truth
She's dodging accountability and consistently placing blame elsewhere. This means she’s not mature enough to engage in healthy communication and likely avoids conflict, which can leave you feeling unheard and frustrated.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might chase after her, trying to communicate and resolve the issue, believing if they just explain enough, she will see her part. This is the wrong move because it prolongs your discomfort and validates her refusal to take responsibility.
💭 Something to Reflect On
What does it reveal about your self-worth when you're willing to accept blame for conflicts in order to keep peace?
✨ What To Do Next
Every situation has nuance. What you see here is a general pattern, but your specific circumstances matter.
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