Why Refusing to Learn Budgeting is a Major Red Flag in Dating
The Situation
"He refuses to learn basic budgeting after bankruptcy"
The Brutal Truth
He’s unwilling to take responsibility for his financial habits, indicating a lack of maturity and accountability. This refusal to learn shows he may repeat destructive patterns instead of growing and improving. He’s not ready to build a healthy relationship.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might overly accommodate him, believing they can 'fix' his issues or manage them for him. This is dangerous because it enables toxic behavior and distracts from their own self-worth and needs.
💭 Something to Reflect On
What does it say about your needs and boundaries when you tolerate someone who avoids responsibility?
✨ What To Do Next
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