When Religion Becomes a Tool for Control in Relationships
The Situation
"She calls my religion controlling whenever we disagree"
The Brutal Truth
He’s dismissing her valid feelings and trying to label her beliefs as controlling. This shows his unwillingness to engage in meaningful dialogue, indicating a deeper need for control and a lack of respect for her autonomy.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might try to appease him by downplaying her feelings or suppressing her beliefs in an effort to avoid conflict. This is wrong because it denies her own needs and self-worth, leading to resentment and further emotional turmoil.
💭 Something to Reflect On
How often do you feel the need to suppress your beliefs to maintain peace in a relationship? What does that say about your own boundaries and self-respect?
✨ What To Do Next
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