Respect in Blended Families: What to Do When Kids Don't Acknowledge You
The Situation
"She says her kids don't need to respect me because I'm not their dad"
The Brutal Truth
This statement reflects deep insecurity and indicates that she sees you as a temporary figure, not worthy of respect in her kids' eyes. It suggests she hasn't fully integrated you into her family dynamics and may not see you as a long-term partner.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might try to prove their worth by overextending themselves, almost begging for approval from both her and her kids. This is harmful, as it undermines your self-worth and pushes you to seek validation externally instead of standing firm in your own value.
đź’ Something to Reflect On
What does respect look like for you in a relationship, and are you currently receiving it?
✨ What To Do Next
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