Scared to Trust Again? Understanding Mixed Signals in Dating
The Situation
"He said he made a mistake but I'm scared to get hurt again"
The Brutal Truth
He’s acknowledging his mistake, but his words may just be empty promises. He’s testing the waters to see if you’re still emotionally available, and that’s a serious red flag for your emotional safety.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
You might feel compelled to rush back into his arms or overanalyze every text. This behavior stems from fear, and it puts you at risk of repeating painful patterns.
💭 Something to Reflect On
What boundaries do you need to create to protect your heart while still allowing love in?
✨ What To Do Next
Every situation has nuance. What you see here is a general pattern, but your specific circumstances matter.
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