Why You Shouldn't Settle for Empty Promises in Dating
The Situation
"He said he wants to see me but has been saying that for months"
The Brutal Truth
His words are just filler; he enjoys the attention and keeps you hanging on without any genuine intention to commit or take action. This is a textbook case of breadcrumbing, where he keeps you interested without actually following through.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might cling harder, hoping if they just stay available he’ll finally make plans. But this creates dependency and reinforces his lack of accountability. You deserve someone who actively wants to be present in your life, not keep you waiting around.
đź’ Something to Reflect On
What would it look like to prioritize your time and energy for someone who matches your commitment level?
✨ What To Do Next
Every situation has nuance. What you see here is a general pattern, but your specific circumstances matter.
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