Is He Love Bombing? Understanding 'Soulmate' After Three Dates
The Situation
"He said I'm his soulmate after three dates"
The Brutal Truth
He's rushing intimacy to create a false sense of connection. Calling you his soulmate after three dates often signifies love bombing—an attempt to overwhelm you with affection to secure you quickly.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
Anxious individuals might feel pressured to reciprocate or play along, fearing rejection if they express uncertainty. This is unhealthy! You should never feel obligated to match someone else's pace or intensity.
💭 Something to Reflect On
What part of this relationship makes me feel rushed, and why do I feel comfortable with that?
✨ What To Do Next
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