How to Handle a Partner Who Stalks You on Social Media
The Situation
"He uses finsta accounts to stalk me"
The Brutal Truth
This guy is invading your privacy and showing he doesn’t respect your boundaries. Using fake accounts to stalk you is a major red flag and indicates possessive and controlling behavior. He doesn’t care about your consent or feelings.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
You might feel the urge to reach out to him, seeking reassurance or an explanation for his behavior. This is wrong because it sends the message that his unhealthy actions are acceptable and that your worth can be validated by his motives.
💭 Something to Reflect On
What does my gut say about this person's intentions, and why am I ignoring those signals?
✨ What To Do Next
Every situation has nuance. What you see here is a general pattern, but your specific circumstances matter.
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