How to Stop Attracting Emotionally Unavailable Men
The Situation
"I keep attracting emotionally unavailable men what's wrong with me"
The Brutal Truth
You’re attracting emotionally unavailable men because you're mirroring their energy. This suggests you're likely not fully committed to self-worth, often settling for less than you deserve. It’s a pattern of choosing relationships that confirm your fears of unavailability.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person may chase after emotional validation from these men, bending over backward to win their affection. This is wrong because it reinforces their unavailability and diminishes your self-worth; it’s a pattern that only leads to heartache.
💭 Something to Reflect On
What do you believe you need to prove to feel deserving of love?
✨ What To Do Next
Every situation has nuance. What you see here is a general pattern, but your specific circumstances matter.
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