Why Taking You for Granted Is a Major Red Flag in Dating
The Situation
"He takes me for granted and doesn't appreciate what I do"
The Brutal Truth
He's probably too self-centered or emotionally unavailable to appreciate you. It's a clear sign that he doesn't recognize your worth and is comfortable letting you give without reciprocating. You deserve better than to be taken for granted.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might cling tighter, seeking constant reassurance and trying harder to prove their worth. This is unhealthy because it only reinforces the power imbalance and makes you lose sight of your value.
đź’ Something to Reflect On
What would it look like to demand respect and appreciation in every relationship you pursue?
✨ What To Do Next
Every situation has nuance. What you see here is a general pattern, but your specific circumstances matter.
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