Therapy Denial: A Sign of Red Flags in Dating
The Situation
"He says therapy is for weak people but refuses to do self-work"
The Brutal Truth
His disdain for therapy shows cowardice; he avoids self-reflection and personal growth. This refusal indicates insecurity and emotional immaturity. By rejecting therapy, he’s also likely unwittingly denying you the healthy relationship you deserve.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might desperately try to convince him otherwise, fearing rejection or abandonment. This is wrong because it shifts focus from their own needs and patterns to his flawed beliefs.
💭 Something to Reflect On
What does refusing to do self-work say about his ability to support your emotional needs?
✨ What To Do Next
Every situation has nuance. What you see here is a general pattern, but your specific circumstances matter.
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