Trust Issues in Relationships: Why Questions Erode Confidence
The Situation
"She said she trusts me but questions everything I do"
The Brutal Truth
She claims to trust you, but her constant questioning reveals deep insecurity and a lack of true faith in your intentions. This behavior can stem from past trauma or fear of emotional vulnerability, signaling a need to address trust issues in the relationship.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might over-explain their actions, seek constant reassurance, or even apologize excessively to satisfy her insecurity. This behavior is misguided because it perpetuates the cycle of doubt and places the responsibility for her feelings onto you.
đź’ Something to Reflect On
What triggers within you when someone questions your motives, and how does that reflect on your sense of self-worth?
✨ What To Do Next
Every situation has nuance. What you see here is a general pattern, but your specific circumstances matter.
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