Why Trying Again Without an Apology is a Red Flag
The Situation
"He wants to try again but hasn't apologized for how he treated me"
The Brutal Truth
He wants to resume the relationship without taking responsibility for his past actions. This shows he's more interested in convenience than in genuinely valuing or respecting you. No apology means he’s likely to repeat the same toxic behavior.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might jump at this chance to reconcile, thinking any love is better than none. This is dangerous because it ignores the necessity of accountability and respect, setting a precedent for future disrespect.
💭 Something to Reflect On
What does it say about your self-worth if you’re willing to overlook a lack of accountability just to have someone back in your life?
✨ What To Do Next
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