Understanding Anger in Relationships: Red Flags of Control
The Situation
"He gets angry when I don't do what he says"
The Brutal Truth
When he gets angry if you don't do what he says, it’s a clear sign of manipulation and control. He’s trying to dominate you emotionally, testing your limits to see how submissive you can be. This isn’t love; it’s toxic.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might try to appease him, constantly seeking his approval to avoid conflict. This is dangerous because it denies your own needs and undermines your self-worth, setting a precedent for accepting unhealthy behaviors.
💭 Something to Reflect On
What does his anger reveal about the boundaries you’re willing to set for yourself?
✨ What To Do Next
Every situation has nuance. What you see here is a general pattern, but your specific circumstances matter.
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