Understanding Boundaries: When Refusing Guest List Access is a Red Flag
The Situation
"She refuses to let my family add anyone to the guest list"
The Brutal Truth
She’s showing control and exclusivity by refusing to let your family add anyone to the guest list. This points to possessiveness and a lack of respect for your relationships, suggesting she prioritizes her needs over yours.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might try to appease her by agreeing or apologizing, but this only reinforces her behavior and undermines your boundaries. It’s essential to set limits, not settle for emotional manipulation.
💭 Something to Reflect On
What does it mean to you when someone tries to control who is in your life?
✨ What To Do Next
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